The lasting of a “Beautiful Relationship” is “Respect and Honor.” The lasting of a ‘Marriage” is “putting Jesus first” and Love, Respect, Honor, Romance and a Bless Life will follow. Love can come alive again only if you want it to. You can put some work into it and make the smell of roses fill the air of emptiness and the presence of laughter fill the heart with love.
How do you value your “Relationship and Marriage”? Ask yourself this question, is it all about me or is it all about us? Are you growing out of each other, instead of growing into each other? Are you telling yourself I don’t feel that butterfly in my stomach anymore that use to make me feel as if I can’t live or breath without him or her. Or maybe you don’t feel the other party is attractive as they use to be. Or could it be time spent in bed just don’t feel the same anymore. Well I have good news for all of you.
Start learning how to appreciate each other. Have proactive communication, hold each other hands when you take a walk or sitting down. Validate each other with your words, go out on date nights just the two of you, to keep the attraction flowing. Choose days to do things you enjoy with the children, let everyone eat at the dinner table so you can talk about life. Go back down memory lane and talk about what use to make you both so happy. Dance with each other it brings romance to the relationship. Invite romance in your cooking its healthy for both of you. Let the children see you love each other and value each other and when they grow older they will do the same. Touch each other often it keeps the feelings alive The little things matters in your relationship.
Ladies listen to me and listen to me well. STOP acting as if you are too holy and pleasure your man, satisfy his physical needs; because if you don’t someone else will. Make your man feel love, valued and appreciated; make him want to come home to the treasure he has at home. Sneak him a love note now and then in his shirt or pants pocket. Or text him and let him know how much you love and appreciate him. you could also sneak an underwear in his work bag, so when he opens it at the office or where he works he bust out a big smile thinking that she still wants me. Leave him a little note with it to let him know what you have plan for later when he comes home. Men make your lady feel secure and validate her, satisfy her emotional needs while she satisfies your physical needs. Women are very emotional and love for these needs to be met. If you meet her emotionally, I promise you she has no problem meeting you physically in your needs, and everything else will just fall into place.
Live life to the fullest, enjoy the moments with each other. Love like there is no tomorrow, Laugh your heart out with each other. Life is beautiful, enjoy it while you can. Never take each other for granted.and ask god to heal your wounds. I hope this article will help you to see your partner beyond their scars, and the best of all learn to love each other through the eyes of Jesus Christ. “SMILE”